Growth and Responsibilities

Good Morning Brilliant and Excellent People,

I look forward to sharing with you Brilliant and Excellent tips for attaining your goals and fulfilling your Purpose.  Today, we will discuss about growth and responsibilities.

We cannot assign responsibilities without examining growth level and capacity. 

When dealing with our children, we give much assistance to those at the tender age while we do not have to worry always about the older ones. We assign responsibilities to the older ones while we assist the younger ones with the same task.

Certain responsibilities interlinks with a certain growth level. You would not be expected to drive at the age of 5 no matter the urgency or situation. 

While growing up, when I realized that there was much expectation from me at every new age, I got practical and took advantage of every opportunity life presented to be available. In some cases, extend generosity and assist to others no matter how mundane.

At a point, I paid my bills, looked after my parents and other obligations as they came. I discovered that at every time I accept responsibilities, I become more responsible and respected and my fears eroded.

Surprisingly, I found I could cultivate the traits I desired through service to others, shared deeper relationships with others, built self-esteem and respect.

I never attributed my problems to anyone or the environment, rather I took responsibilities.

Acording to Sophocles “A sign of wisdom and maturity is when you come to terms with the realization that your decisions cause your rewards and consequences. You are responsible for your life, and your ultimate success depends on the choices you make.”

Measuring your growth level to your responsibilities helps you stop relying on external validation like praise from other people to feel good about yourself. Instead you start building your growth capacity and get the permission to live the life you want.

When you master this act, Taking action and decision becomes natural and you can fulfil your purpose.

Decide this week to take responsibility of your life.

Have a great week.