Good Morning Brilliant and Excellent
People,
I look forward to sharing with you
Brilliant and Excellent tips for attaining your goals and fulfilling your
Purpose.
“People are like dirt. They
can either nourish you and help you grow as a person, or they can stunt your
growth and make you wilt and die.” Plato
People
have an incredible impact on your life and how far you will go in life. Some
people are like parasites, they suck you of all potentials and growth there may
ever be. And some people push you forward and encourage you to reach your full
potential.
Who
you surround yourself with is very crucial to your growth and development.
According to Jim Rohn, you are the average of the five people you spend your
time with. This means that, the people you spend most of your time with are a
reflection of you, your values, and your vision.
Once
you understand the importance of this, it is easier to consciously cultivate
healthy and positive relationships.
So,
what kinds of people should you surround yourself with?
·
Coaches/Mentors: A good
coach/mentor helps you measure your performance against your strength instead
of against someone else’s. Coaches and Mentors are there to give you
professional advice on the situations that you encounter, they give you the
tools you need to achieve something monumental with your life. Surrounding
yourself with mentor(s) can guarantee a measure of success that you otherwise
may not have attained without one. Your coaches or mentors do not have to be
people who are out of reach, there are tons of people around you who can guide
you against the hurdles of youth, business, career or whatever the need be. Of
course, you should chose people who are highly experienced and are willing to
share their ideas, people who have a sustained income, who have attained a
measure of success that you haven’t and who most of all can inspire you to
greater accomplishments.
·
Counselors/Elders: Experiences
are there for similar future purpose. Decision making is a lot easier when
someone who has one through the same thing is able to guide you through yours. Counselors
and or Elders are somewhat different from the first point I mentioned above in
terms of experience. You should have people like this around you, who from time
to time you can simply listen to their story or experience and learn a great
deal of wisdom, far more beneficial to you than what you may sometimes learn
from professional coaches and mentors.
·
People of like minds:
Like-minded people are the push you need to do some if the things that you need
to get done sometimes. Surrounding yourself with mediocre people gives you a
reason to relax, be calm and be lazy. You hear statement like, “I can’t kill
myself”. People who are high achievers, who wants to impact their community,
move together. Surrounding yourself with such people puts the spot on you too,
in time, you actually begin to make a difference.
·
Influencers: Influences
are people who may not have spoken to you at all, you may not even have met
them personally, but you have been greatly impacted by their life, their work,
their speech or their patriotism. Whatever it is, you need people like this in
your space. Great people rub off on you if you have an open heart to learn.
Could be the way they walk, the way they talk or even the way they introduce
themselves in an event that sets them apart, there will be something you can
learn and more that could be the difference in your life as well.
Greatness is a potential in every man, but if you
don’t get conscious of your close associations, the ones you spend the most
time with, greatness can be history.
For more
details, you can contact the BPE team @ www.solomonempire.com or download
BPE tool app on google play store.
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Solomon’s Empire, kindly send a mail to topemandy@solomonempire.com.
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